It's that time of year again.  When the holiday season rolls around, we spend many more nights with friends and family, give and receive gifts, and donate our time. One of the most overlooked components of all of these activities is the thank-you note or letter.  Here is a list of times when a thank you letter would be appropriate:

  • After an Interview
  • After you have received any gift
  • After you have enjoyed a meal at someone's home
  • When someone has done you a favor
  • After you have stayed at someone's home on a trip
  • When you receive a new account from a client
  • When someone has given you support, written a letter on your behalf, etc.
The first thing you want to do when writing a letter of thanks is be sincere.  With gifts, do not gush over something you do not like.  People can tell that you are lying with your words - and overzealous language often gives this away. Instead, thank them for their generosity or their thoughtfulness, and find one positive thing to say. If you stayed at their home for a vacation, mention something you did together that you really enjoyed.  If someone has given you support, explain how much it meant to you. 

It is vital to be grateful for the things we receive in life from others - both material and emotional.  Take time to show your gratitude by writing a meaningful and heartfelt thank you to those who are special to you.